Some thoughts on Set-ups
I recently heard a podcast about being set up. I loved it. I loved hearing a single woman explaining to her married friend that she likes being set up. And it was helpful for me to hear a married person explaining why he had been hesitant to set up his friends. It was the kind of honest conversation I think more of us should probably have. In another post, I'll have to write about my hope for the church to become less a set of silos and more of an integrated body. But for today, let's just talk about dating. This podcast was a good reminder of how many times I've thought that I need to be more proactive when it comes to my dating life. It also reminded me of the multiple times I've thought that I needed to be more outspoken about my willingness to be set up, and how all of those times I've either gotten busy and not done it, or didn't know how to bring up the subject. I loved listening to such an honest conversation about setting people up, and it made me wan...